A Natural Player

Guys,

I was going through some of my old Mancoat posts in search of posting material. After all, I posted a lot of good stuff before starting this blog; that, and I couldn't leave my with & wisdom buried-ha! Anyway, here's SquarePeg telling us about his uncle, a natural player if there ever were one...

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You all know the story of how I got BBD'd, and how it drove me to this forum.

So I was telling my uncle this story he says I don't know how to deal with women and that's why it happened. Which is true to a certain extent but perhaps not as much as he implied.

Anyway, him and I are complete opposites, and his life story perfectly illustrates how players work and how dumb women are (because they act on their basic emotions and have no long-term thinking ability):

Me: 26, never had a woman. Responsible, not overweight, successful, well-paying job, good education, treats women with respect, not a player.
Him: 35, has four different children from four different women. And these women weren't exactly trash either...one of them has a PhD, and all of them are average or above average looking. Now, he's living with woman #5 and she is working 12 hours a day to pay his rent and pay for his car. He has no education, been evicted from several different apartments, been arrested for domestic abuse (although he's not a criminal), is hated by all the mothers of all of his children, swears at his mother, has an extreme victim mentality and never accepts responsibility for his actions, very poor with money (doesn't have a job yet asking me which plasma TV he should buy with his government assistance). He has never held down a real job for more than a couple months in his entire life. He is overweight and has no eating discipline.

Point being, women gravitate towards guys like him, they think he is a good guy to be with and they dump their current boyfriends for him. When he talks to women, he comes off as "funny", "smooth", and "charming", causing them to completely ignore the fact that his is not an honorable man. He is a smooth talker and a master bullshitter, and gullible women (sometimes even my mom) fall for his garbage with ease. I am left to conclude that 99.9% of women fall for facade, game, and gimmick, instead of quality.

Is this what we must become in order to get women? What the hell is wrong with this system? This proves unequivocally that women do not care about quality, they only respond to the tactics of players. Or more accurately, only men who are skilled at making women feel emotionally attracted to them will get women. And these are the very men who are least likely to make good husbands and fathers. (taken from THE RULES)

He swears up and down that what he does is not a game, he's just "being himself". Which in a way may be true in the sense that these tactics are so ingrained in him that they are subconscious and he is not aware when he is manipulating female emotions through specific actions, postures, ways of speech, and words. Nevertheless, whatever one wishes to call it, he has it, and he can bag women left and right.

When I tell this story to my mom and my sister, they give the typical "Oh, but look at the kind of women he gets. You don't want those kind of women!". That's nonsense. The women he gets are normal women. They are the same as all the others. This "you don't want to attract those kind of girls" line, I believe, is simply a tactic women use to make themselves feel better than other women. When in fact, 99.9% of women would fall for his games.

Damn
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Guys, it's like I always say: chicks do NOT want a good man; they want the worst scumbag that they can find! That's who gets their panties hot & wet, not being a gentleman. Until next time...

MarkyMark