Specter, one of our stalwarts on Mancoat, found this gem at the Experience Project. It features men speaking about their wives, and how their wives REALLY treat them. Every time I read something like this, it confirms and validates my decision to remain single. TGIS!
I have featured three comments, each of which is a different color. Men, if this doesn't get the lesson across, nothing will! If you have sexual needs, then resort to self stimulation; either that, or use whores. Regardless of which method you use, you won't have to put up with some woman's BS when you're done.
That reminds me: you know what they say about using hookers? You don't pay them for 'doing the deed'; you pay them to leave when you're done-ha! Read this, and remember that THIS is what you're in for if you get married. If a woman is reading this, then learn how NOT to be a royal bitch. Better yet, try something REALLY revolutionary-treat him like a human being! He'll really freak out over that! Thank you, and enjoy this piece...
"she tells me she loves me sooo much but her actions say otherwise. in my book actions speak louder then words. "
This is important. This describes most male - female relationships
and leaves men utterly confused.
Q - so why do women act completely irrational and insane?
A - because they care more about validated FEELINGS than anything or anyone else in life.
Despite men's best efforts to "please" or meet the requirements of the male in the relationship, women will always find fault rather than give praise.
This is due to her FEELING that life is a zero sum game. If a man does something good she instantly FEELS she must even the "score" by doing something good herself (HARD) or tearing him down(EASY) to make her FEEL better about herself.
If a man does something bad or unacceptable to her, then it is the wife's sworn duty to beat him to death with whatever he did wrong . Why? Because he made her FEEL bad/embarrassed/uncomfortable.
Women do something stupid and who is to blame? Who gets the fallout? MEN! And why ? Because you made her FEEL bad.
Men don't want an admission of guilt or a defense of your
"case". Just say "sorry, I screwed up" and take responsibility for yourself.
"Oh but you don't UNDERSTAND how I FEEL!!"
A relationship is not a fkn courtroom , ladies. Men who love you do not want to play the judge/jury/executioner/role and we sure as HELL don't wanna be your DADDY!!
We do not care to hear you plead your emotion-based defense of your latest volley of complaint/criticisms/******* and we are not gonna pat you on the head and tell you what a great woman you are when you are being a TOTAL *****!
Women NEVER WANT TO ADMIT THAT THEY ARE WRONG because they feel totally justified by their FEELINGS. They have been conditioned and trained their whole lives to believe that their FEELINGS are never WRONG.
Think about that for a minute.
How would you like to live a life where you were never wrong guys? Where everything you did and said could be TOTALLY justified by your FEELINGS at the time?
"Sorry those people died crushed in the rubble but I didn't FEEL that the third structural support was necessary on that bridge. NOW YOU MUST ALL VALIDATE MY FEELING!!!"
Okay ,girls here's one Oprah will never teach you.
Feelings without thought or physical evidence are bullsh*t.
Feelings are totally temporary and men are NOT gonna spend their lives and waste words validating your temporary bullsh*t.
Soulless and Stupid.
How else do you describe them? The modern American woman simply has no concept of logic or common sense. She doesn't even have a grasp of the traditionally female strengths of love and devotion. They are so wrapped up in their tiny little make believe worlds that they can't/won't see what they have right in front of them.
More concerned with "American Idol" and "Dancing with the Stars" than with marriage or family, the modern American woman is a model of self-centered stupidity. Her "marriage" is just a long footnote to the shallow , vapid, Barbie dream house wedding that she fully believes that she is entitled to( due to her sheer personal awesomeness) . "Love" is defined by the length of the number in the price tag of the gifts she receives.The irrelevant bastard she has managed to trap with false affection and then chain to her side with the aid of "fear of divorce" is only as important as what he has done for her lately. He sticks around hoping against hope that at best she will eventually recognize him as pretty good person or at least not destroy him financially or cause pain for his children in the inevitable divorce.
Totally uninterested in a "relationship" or honesty , they present pretty faces that conceal the heart of a snake. They spend thousands of dollars on hair,clothes and makeup preparing the "honey trap" that, once sprung, will entitle her BY LAW to half of her male victim's net worth and most of the custody of any children, regardless of how horribly she treats their father.
Thoughtless,heartless,disrespectful, greedy little psychic vampires , emptying their prey, getting thrills from torturing her mate with the weapons of sexual refusal, constant nagging , emotional immaturity and embarassing public attacks.
"Wife" ? Are you kidding ? The word is synonymous with misery. Wife refers to the female parasite that exists only to feed itself from the lifeblood of it's unlucky male hosts.
The reality is this: If it weren't for male biological needs, women would have NOTHING to offer.
Soulless and Stupid.
I t has been some time since I have written. I have been trying to digest my wife's latest and greatest. On Christmas Eve, she announced that she no longer loves me. Seven years of marriage, two children later and as she put it, "I really feel sorry for you... it's not your fault, it's like I just don't feel anything anymore". I asked if she found someone else, and her response was no. I want to believe it, but my heart tells me she's full of it. Since then, I find that my mind wanders from time to time. I find myself plotting her death, laughing at her funeral, going to jail happy, but then I remember my children and how I would in effect be leaving them.
So, I'm left to only dream. In the interim, we have set-up an appointment to see a marriage counselor. The thing is, I'm not sure if I really do want to work this out. Between her "working" 14 to 15 hours a day (as a teacher?), going out drinking with her work buddies every Friday night (sometimes until 7am Saturday morning), her incredibly selfish behavior and inconsiderate ways, I have trouble remembering what I ever saw in her.
Forget about hating her, I have started hating myself for being such an idiot for marrying her in the first place. If I could build a time machine and go back, I would shoot myself in the head as I stood at the alter. It would have been less heartache for all concerned.
If you are reading this and are considering getting married, PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE... DON'T!!!! I don't care how much in love you THINK you are, or what the situation is, DON'T DO IT!!!! That sweet, loving, considerate bride will change over the years and she will LEARN how to hurt you in ways you didn't think you could ever be hurt. DON'T trust anyone, most of all, your own heart. It will fool you!
Makes you want to run out and get married, doesn't it? That was a joke, Fellas; laugh already! If you're single, stay that way. If you find yourself longing for that 'special someone' to come home to, read this again; remind yourself of what you're REALLY in for should you say 'I do'. When you have a chance, also look at any married man you know. Is he happy? Yeah, that's what I thought. Stay happy, single, and free, Fellas; the life you save may be your own! Until next time...