In my post about wanting a woman as nice as my dog (or cat, as the case may be), we had a woman come around and share her 'thoughts' with us. Below is her most recent comment as of this writing. I am going to respond to her comments now as only I can do. Here goes...
Men who command respect get my respect "MarkyMark." That doesn't include any of you. You speak of "shaming language" and yet it is YOU who have called me every name under the sun on this blog, by virtue of my being an American female.
The same goes for women; unfortunately, few of them get my respect when they want to emulate their 'heroines' on Sex and the City or Jersey Shore. Besides, you don't even CONDEMN such skank behavior; if anything, you laud and praise it! You want me to respect you? You want me to take you seriously? You want me to view you as a lady? Then ACT like one!
The question I have is this: what names did anyone call you? I reread the comments, and I didn't see much name calling. I did see 'Sweetums' and feminazi but that's all. Judging by your the content and tenor of your comments, I'd say that those are fair assessments of who and what you are; they're not name calling.
P Ray, LOL I was waiting for someone to start with the "false claim" nonsense. You're pathetic. And I'm pretty sure I never said assault was confined to one gender. It happened to the man I am with as well. When he was a child. For all you know, he's sitting here right by my side as I type this. Get it??
Yeah, false claims are such 'nonsense'; they don't happen at all, right? False claims and accusations don't destroy mens' lives; no, they're just 'nonsense', right? Let me guess: you're going to parrot Susan Brownmiller's long discredited assertion that only 2% of rape accusations are false, right? False claims are such nonsense that we have entire blogs devoted to them! You ever hear of The False Rape Society?
Oh, and while you may not have said that assault is confined to one SEX (sex is the proper word to use here, since gender deals with the pronouns-duh), most women think that. They think that because the feminazis, of which you are one, so often spout that lie that it's become an accepted fact. If you're not a feminazi, why have you not CONDEMNED your fellow sisters for making false accusations, hmmm? Why have you done nothing to hold them accountable? If for no other reason (say you hate men, which, judging by your tone, seems to be the case), I should think you'd want to put a stop to false accusations, because it makes life harder for REAL victims, i.e. those who really were raped, beaten, assaulted, etc.
You've all made an awful lot of assumptions. Just because I spoke my mind, you wrongly assume that I'm some angry feminazi with a crew cut and a chip on her shoulder. You couldn't be more mistaken if you tried. I'm quite feminine, thank you. But yes, I do believe the feminist movement is reactionary. Usually people who are happy don't revolt ;) And I'm not an "Amerislut" either. I have only ever been with one man (willingly) in my life. That man is my fiance. We plan to have a very traditional marriage, including the vows we will make to one another. I have no problems with that. I'm happy with that. And I'm happy to have a man to protect me from the likes of you all, frankly. I'm happy to have him lead in the relationship. But you know what? He's a man WORTHY of being followed. Think on that.
Man oh man, you just hung a fast ball over the middle. I cannot let that one go! Stand by while I hit this one out of the park...
One, judging by the nasty tone and content of your comments, you're a feminist. Oh, you may not call yourself one, but you are one nonetheless. Exhibit A is this quote from your first comment: "Not so nice when the shoe is on the other foot, is it? And that is the price 21st Century men pay for the Patriarchal systems and testosterone covered millenniums of the past." Let's see, we have an allusion to 'the patriarchy', which is standard, feminist claptrap; it's a standard remark feminists use to deride and disparage anything male. You gave yourself away right there, Darlin'! You're a bloody liar! You are a feminist, which means you hate men.
Secondly, I don't mind someone speaking their minds. I don't even mind a woman speaking her mind; in fact, I prefer one that does, because I don't have to be a mind reader! Why do you chicks always want us to be mind readers, anyway? That's another rant though, and I shall leave it for another day. No, what I don't care for is the obnoxious, disrespectful, arrogant, condescending comments women always make when speaking to men. A woman who speaks in such a way is called 'a strong woman'; we men are told that we can't 'handle a strong woman'. No, we can handle strong women just fine, thank you very much; what we can't stand are the stubborn, argumentative, obdurate ones who constantly bash and trash men like you do.
A truly strong woman will politely, firmly, directly, yet respectfully (that's the KEY WORD here!) sit down with her man, tell him she has a problem; she'll say what it is, so he understands her point clearly; then, she'll tell him what she wants him to DO about it! If she does that; if she picked a GOOD man (not a bad boy like the late, Whitney Houston did); if she has a history of treating him well (i.e. better than his dog does); then, her man will respond favorably, if not enthusiastically. What I don't respond to well is some harridan like you!
Thirdly, elaborating on what I said above, the vast majority of women DO choose douchebags for men! Look at the late Whitney Houston, a talented and beautiful woman who SURELY could have done better than that scum, Bobby Brown. Look at Heather Locklear, who in her prime, was one of the most beautiful women on the planet; she could have done a hell of lot better than that dirtbag, Tommy Lee. Then, after he got done with Heather Locklear, Mr. Lee nailed Pam Anderson while SHE was in her prime! You mean to tell me that Pam Anderson, as a member of the Hollywood community, didn't know what kind of man Tommy Lee was? You mean to tell me that she didn't know the stories about him and Heather? Even after knowing all this, she STILL took up with him?! Come again, Rampart! As Bill Maher said, women have no right to complain about men until they start showing better taste in them.
Fourthly, the vast majority of American women ARE sluts! You have heard of the two, hit TV shows that feature slutty conduct, haven't you? You have heard of Sex and the City & Jersey Shore, right? Do you know what those shows are about? They're about the slutty conduct of modern women, Darlin'. Moreover, this conduct is LAUDED AND CHEERED by women across the nation! Why, the women of SATC and Jersey Shore aren't sluts; they're strong, independent, empowered women who are in touch with their sexuality.
Ah, but those are TV shows; they're just make believe; they're not real. Okay, I'll bite. I'll offer you some REAL evidence about how slutty modern, American women are. Did you know that American women ages 20-24 test positive for HPV 44.8% of the time? Did you know that this figure rises to 49% when you're talking about sexually active women in that age group (let's face it, you might as well be talking all women ages 20-24 here, because they're ALL sexually active at that age nowadays). BTW, HPV is the virus that causes genital warts, cervical cancer, etc. I don't know what you call that, but I call it promiscuous; I'd call it being a SLUT.
Yes, there are women who aren't sluts, but they're in the distinct minority; the number of such women in this Jersey Shore era is asymptotically close to being ZERO. Ergo, it's correct and accurate to say that all American women are sluts; the number who aren't is statistically insignificant.
Your epithets are both humorous and frightening. ALLLL American women are sluts? ALLLL American women are this, that or the other? Really?? And all black men have huge penises. And all Asian men have tiny ones. And all blondes are stupid and slutty (I can assure you I'm neither). And all Jews are greedy. And all Southerners are inbreeds. Right? That's how ridiculous you sound.
Dr. Walter E. Williams, professor of economics at George Mason University, had THIS to say about stereotypes: they're cheap information. To put it another way, stereotypes achieve their status because they're TRUE-duh! The exceptions don't undermine the rule in question; they prove it. For example, the few American women who aren't man-hating feminazis and sluts prove the rule that the vast majority of them are.
Do you boys know that scene in that old movie Ghostbusters… the scene where Bill Murray and Dan Aykroyd are in the courtroom with the jar of slime? The psychic protoplasm or whatever it is? And the judge is there, red-faced and screaming. Just spewing venom all over the courtroom. And the jar of slime begins to absorb that energy… until finally it explodes and all hell is unleashed upon him? A reflection of his own rage. That's what you boys remind me of. Your hatred is toxic. And the thing is, it's only toxic to YOU. It's your own psyche and your own soul you are filling with rancor. Wouldn't it be healthier to just join the ranks of the "men going their own way" sect? You're going to give yourselves heart attacks. Seriously, I'm not being disingenuous. Carry on though…
Though I saw Ghostbusters decades ago, I don't remember much of it; I don't remember the scene in question. Having said that, I don't hate American women; I just view them sans rose colored glasses. I view them as they actually are, and I tell the truth about them. I guess telling the truth has become a hateful act, huh? Darlin', the best way for a man to have a heart attack is to end up with the likes of you! God help that poor SOB who's engaged to you; God help him more once he says "I do", because he's going to need it! Carry on, now...
That ends my commentary and analysis of Anon's comments. Until next time...