I was reading a thread on Mancoat earlier today. In
that thread, someone had a link to an old thread on JDUnderground, a site for lawyers. Anyway, the
entire thread is good; I could make a few posts out of the material
in it. That said, I thought that this post was particularly good, as
it shows American women's 'thought process'-or lack thereof, I should
say. This woman is a PIECE OF WORK! I and other guys have known her
type; indeed, some of us have been on the RECEIVING END of these fun
& games. These are the same ones who, at 30+ years of age, cry
out wondering where all the good men
June 22, 2008 - 10:32 am
Women in their late 20s/early 30s
have to learn to be "nice" and develop great personalities
because the aloof/angry-at-the world/depressive mentality many have -
and many have used successfully in the past doesn't work as well with
the guys who are "left" so to speak.
Being nice goes
a lot further than I think women understand. They see being bitchy
and elusive when you are young and nubile and then try to replicate
it when the dating pool has already weeded out the guys who fall for
that shit (plus as women age they lose a lot of their sexual capital
and guys just won't put up with it anymore.)
don't need to learn THAT, Man! Why if women are nice to their men, or
even entertain the mere THOUGHT of doing so, why they're letting down
the Sisterhood! That would be weak; that would be giving in to her
'oppressor', for crying out loud! They can't be NICE to no stinkin'
man now; why, he might take advantage of her...
these chicks, when they were young, hot, desirable, and carrying less
baggage than a luggage factory were 'in demand'; they were wanted,
big time, so they were drunk with their power. They didn't have to be
nice, since there were 100 guys lining up to replace the one she just
blew off. They got USED to having men come down the tracks like rush
hour trains, and they figured that this would continue forever. Silly
Al anon is also right that, once men reach a certain
point, then they're no longer willing to PUT UP with a woman's crap.
Once men reach a certain point, they are no longer slaves to their
hormones, so they're no longer willing to anything or put up with
anything just to get some nookie. I find that the older I get, the
less willing I am to put up with a woman's crap. Shoot, if I even
THINK a woman will play head games, I'm G-O-N-E...
yeah. Here's a rough approximation of a random panicked phone call I
got from a close female friend last week to give you a peek into the
mindset of late 20s female...
her -I've been crying all
night, so and so is getting married. This is horrible. My life is
OVER, I have nothing now.
me -Thats great, he's such a good
dude. Who is he marrying?
her - some pasty-white 25-year old
blond grad student bimbo bitch with bad ears.
me - Wait...Why
aren't you happy for him? He was like your best friend in law
her - Because I loved him and now I can't have him.
Everyone is getting married and no one wants to marry me.
Darlin', your best friend is marrying someone else! Whose FAULT is
me - Love him? You guys live five
minutes from each other and never hang out. And aren't you dating
some other dude?
her - I don't really want to talk about
Al anon, my friend, the LAST thing this stupid
bitch wanted was to be confused with the facts! She didn't want to
talk about HER role in losing a good man now. Why, that would mean
she'd have to accept RESPONSIBILITY for herself and her actions! AW
can't have that now...
me - I don't
know, maybe he assumed since you are dating other people that you
weren't interested in him.
Dude, you just HAD to point
out the obvious, didn't you? Leave it to a MAN to look at things
logically, and to remind this little dearie of the facts...
- You are a boy, you don't understand. I should have never called
you. You don't get it, I can't just be available and hang around him,
he'll never like me then. I don't want to look too forward you know.
I don't want to be rejected.
Darlin', you didn't waste
ANY time dispensing the insults or shaming language, did you?! And I
just LOVE the bullshit answer you give to his obvious, yet pointed
me - Too forward? Didn't you
claim he only moved down here to be closer to you?
her - I
don't know, maybe...he was going for his MBA.
deny past, narcissistic statements, my dear?
- And moved five minutes away from you. When was the last time you
her - I don't know, December maybe. We hung out more
in the fall. I'm busy, he's busy.
Ah, excuses, excuses.
You know what they say: excuses are like anuses; everyone has one,
and they ALL stink...
me - Why didn't
something happen between you two?
her - He tried, two or three
times invited me back to his place and such but I never went. I
thought he'd think I was being a slut.
Ah, now we have
a GLIMMER of truth trying to break through the clouds of your lies &
deception, my dear! Now the truth is starting to come out...
- We all just assumed you two were sleeping together in law school.
You two were always together. He doesn't think you are a slut, he
thinks you are the world's biggest prude and tease and after getting
shot down he found someone else.
Ding, ding, ding,
ding! We have a winner! Of COURSE your buddy thought this chick was a
prude and tease; she led him to think she was interested, then blew
off your friend when he ACTED on the false signals this bitch sent
out. Of COURSE he found someone else; he wanted a gal who wanted
her - He stopped calling me
too, the phone works both ways.
Oh, I just LOVE how you
try deflecting responisibilty, Darlin'; I just love how you try
saying, "It's not all my fault-waaahhhh!" How freakin'
me - You shot him down
sexually, you think he's gonna be hanging around?
you're being a patriarchal oppressor; you're being LOGICAL, for
her - We used to talk ALL
the time. ALL the time. He was my SOUL MATE.
you didn't TREAT him like your soul mate, my dear...
- He wanted to have sex with you, when you took that off the table he
took that talk to someone or somewhere it could actually lead to
Dude, you keep pointing out the obvious!
When are you going to learn that chicks do NOT want to be confused
with logic, the facts, or the truth-ESPECIALLY if it makes them look
her - But we were like EPIC
friends, I've never known anyone, ANYONE in the world who understood
me like he did. Or at least tried to understand me like he did.
- Maybe thats it, maybe he did finally understand you and knew he had
to move on. I've been there...
Yeah, your buddy, Mr. NG
understood that this stupid bitch didn't want him, so he went and
found someone who DID-what a concept! Imagine that, a man finding a
woman who actually WANTS him...
shut up. You are such an idiot. I suppose I could have called him
back more. But I'm busy. And I have canceled plans with him three or
four times in the past month or so.
me - So you never called
him, canceled plans with him regularly, and shot down his sexual
advances, I'm happy for him. He's too nice to date you. He should
have moved on long ago.
So, this stupid, clueless bitch
blew off Mr. NG REPEATEDLY, shot down his advances, etc., and yet she
STILL expects him to be pining away for her?! COME ON!!
- I hate you.
me - Yeah I know whatever, you have NO REASON to
be upset. Really no reason.
her - He LIKED Me! Not some other
Yeah, but your ACTIONS told him that his love
for you was UNWANTED; you told him, via your actions that you were
me - Guys aren't
that complicated. You are secretly dating someone else, never call
him, cancel plans, haven't hung out with him in 6 months and yet you
are shocked and crying on the phone with me about your best friend
getting married. I can't help you with that. It doesn't
What can I POSSIBLY add to that?! Al anon, you
NAILED it, brother! Are you sure you haven't been hanging around
MRA/MGTOW sites & blogs?
the length but after perusing this thread I just had to
Thanks for sharing with us, al anon...
Guys, THIS is what passes for 'chyck logic'; this is what passes for female 'thinking'. And to think we allowed these creatures to vote! No WONDER our once great nation is taking a swan dive into the crapper. Until next time...