My Thoughts on Prenups

 Guys,

There's a cool, new YouTube channel that I watch every day: Zoe's Stories. Though the content is at least partially AI generated, it's good. The stories are usually about women mistreating their men, and they're from the woman's point of view; that is, they're told through the woman's eyes. We can gain insight into how women think about men, relationships, and why. For Red Pillers needing their daily dose, I consider this channel MUST-SEE TV!

Since their new episode is about prenups, I left a comment explaining my thoughts about them. What do I think about them, and why? Though you can and should watch the video, you don't have to go there to see my thoughts on prenups. Why? Because I saved them for right here! Down below is my comment I left in response to Zoe's Stories' new video about prenups.

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I have three thoughts WRT prenups. One is that, when you marry, you ALWAYS have a prenup! It may not be one that's formally presented from one person to another, but it's there. Two, considering that women file for divorce at least 80% of the time and they do so for spurious reasons, a prenup is a necessity for any man who's thinking about marriage. Finally, depending on jurisdiction, prenups may or may not help; some jurisdictions are more prenup friendly (i.e. they honor prenups) than others.

So, what sort of prenup exists when you get married? Simple, it's your state's marriage and divorce laws. They decide how the marriage will be dissolved and how assets will be divided. Think of having a will vs. not having one. Just because you don't have a will when you die doesn't mean that your estate can't be liquidated and closed. It will be, but it won't be you who decides these things; it'll be that state's probate laws that decide on the disposition of assets vs. any last will and testament you leave directing the same. Having a prenup vs. not having one is the same thing. If you have a prenup, then you can decide who gets what if the marriage fails. If you don't have a prenup of your own, the state's marriage and divorce laws will decide these things for you. That's number one.

Number two, women file for divorce the vast majority of the time, and they usually do so for spurious reasons. They leave because "they're not happy"; they leave because they're bored; they leave because they want "to find themselves", a euphemism for riding strange, new dick. Here's something to think about: women don't file for divorce due to adultery any more often than men do. That is to say that, if a man marries, the odds are good that the woman won't honor her marriage vows; the odds are that she'll leave at some point. Overall, women file for divorce 80% of the time; if the woman is college educated (read indoctrinated), then she'll file first 90% of the time. Assuming the divorce rate is 50%, here are the odds of the wife leaving; here's the math: 0.50*0.80=0.4, or 40%; 0.50*0.90=0.45, or 45%. That's approaching 1 OUT OF 2; that's a coin flip! Would you jump out of an airplane if there was almost a 1 in 2 chance of the parachute failing? I know, and I REST MY CASE! If a man is contemplating marriage, he must keep these things in mind.

The final consideration is that some states are more prenup friendly than others; i.e. some states honor and uphold prenups more often than others do. If you're a man considering marriage; if you're a man considering using a prenup to offer some protection; then it behooves you to consult a family law attorney in your state. That family law attorney can tell you more about whether or not prenups are upheld in your state, so you can decide whether marrying with a prenup will offer any meaningful protection. If your state isn't prenup friendly, then marriage cannot and must not be considered.

In closing, there are three important considerations about prenups. One is that, if you marry, there's already a prenup in effect: that states' divorce laws. Two is that women most often file for divorce first, and they do so for questionable reasons. Just a quick visit to TikTok (or ChikTok) will confirm this, as there are women all over the place telling other women that they don't need a good, solid reason to leave, even if they're married to a good guy. Finally, some states honor prenups more than others do; before even considering marriage, it's incumbent upon men to find out if their state is prenup friendly. Those are my thoughts.

Oh, and if you want to see the video, it's right here. Enjoy, Fellas!