Prenups

 Guys,

Strong Successful Male's new video features an attorney writing in and sharing his thoughts about prenups. Below is my comment in response to the video.

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I also follow Jonathan Noble, Esq., a divorce and family law attorney practicing in NJ and PA. He has a YouTube channel talking about this stuff; he's informative, so I recommend that men follow him and watch his content. He's talked about PA being prenup friendly, the implication being that some jurisdictions are more prenup friendly than others; that is to say that some jurisdictions honor prenups more than others do.

Secondly, and this is my thought only, is that just because a jurisdiction is prenup friendly today doesn't mean that they'll be prenup friendly tomorrow. How do you know that, if you get divorced 20 years from now, that your jurisdiction will still honor prenups? What's to say that either statutory or case law WRT divorces won't change? Even if everything is done right today, it doesn't mean that a man will be protected in the future. Things change, right? Therefore, men need to remember that.

Thirdly, even if things are done right; even if your STBX wife is willing to honor the prenup she signed (i.e. she has no intention of contesting it); doesn't mean that a judge cannot or will not set aside the prenup. Just look at what happened to "Friends" star Matt LeBlanc. He married with a prenup. They got divorced. His STBX said that she was ready, willing, and able to honor the prenup. Guess what? That black robed SOB STILL set the prenup aside! Matt LeBlanc's divorce, though it happened years ago now, serves as a cautionary tale.

With all that in mind, the only 100% safe play is to not get married. If you, as a man, aren't married, then you cannot be divorce raped. It's just that simple.