When Outcastsuperstar had his blog, he wrote a piece that I've long wanted to run on here. Unfortunately, by the time I was ready to do so, he'd already deleted his blog. Thankfully, he saved this most powerful piece of writing, and he posted it on Happy Bachelors. I've taken the liberty to copy & paste a post for the ages. Enjoy, Fellas...
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I wrote this back in 2008 and it's probably one of the best pieces I have ever written
Enjoy!
I
have heard the arguments on both sides, one from people like
Christopher in Oregon that all women are back stabbing bitches and I
heard from many others that there are indeed good women out there and
NOT all women are like this. I see a much bigger picture rather than
proving all women are like this or aren’t like this.
I’m going to breakdown four possible scenarios which can happen and analyze the type of life a man can live under each scenario.
Scenario
#1 you believe people like Christopher in Oregon that all women are
like this and have adapted accordingly. Indeed Christopher in Oregon is
right.
Scenario
#2 you believe people like Christopher in Oregon that all women are
like this and have adapted accordingly. However, Christopher in Oregon
is wrong with his assessment that all women will betray you.
Scenario
#3 you believe NOT all women are like this and will get married to that
special person. Indeed you are right that you found a winner.
Scenario
#4 you believe NOT all women are like this and will get married to that
special person. However, that special person turned into a witch and
will make your life a living hell.
Under scenario #1 you believe all women are like this and have adapted accordingly. You are indeed right.
Well
as a result of not getting taken to the cleaners or having to support
anyone but yourself, you can find the right balance between work and
life. In other words you won’t have to work yourself in an early grave.
Not only that but you will have more discretionary income by staying single.
You can take yourself to ball games all the time.
You can take yourself to the best restaurants while being served by liberated waitresses.
You
can engage in fun hobbies all the time. Examples would be hikes,
golfing, playing video games, playing pool, going bowling, going to the
gym etc.
Eventually, you can take yourself on Bachelor Vacations, or buy yourself expensive toys like Harley Davidson’s etc.
So
in other words when it’s all said and done your going to have life full
of luxuries and less stress by avoiding American Women and focusing on
fun Bachelor Hobbies and taking fun Bachelor vacations.
Under
scenario #2 you believe all women are like this and have adapted
accordingly. However, you are wrong and there are indeed women who are
loyal and won’t betray you.
The
life a man can have can be read under scenario #1. The result is there
are no consequences for being wrong and you can afford to be wrong here
and still live a quality bachelor life.
Under
scenario #3 you believe NOT all women are like this and will get
married to that special person. You are indeed right and you found a
winner.
In
terms of being married you lucked out that the woman you married
decided not to cash out on you but this doesn’t mean it’s necessarily
going to be a happy marriage.
For
starters you will be working yourself into an early grave. Meaning you
will have to be working long hours for year after year until you fall
over dead.
This
means you will have no time for fun hobbies or have any money to
finance them. This is because you will working for the rest of your life
to pay the Mortgage, pay for all the family vehicles, pay for all of
the children’s expenses which will include college in many cases, as
well as paying for wife’s shopping sprees which she will be entitled to
since she is the mother of your children. Also, there will be many doses
of constant nagging where you won’t be able to enjoy any peace and
quiet time to yourself.
In
the end if all goes well on your death bed you’re grown up children may
tell you that they love you as well as your wife. This doesn’t change
the fact you had to slave away year after year in order to keep things a
float and you will have a very difficult time planning for retirement.
At least you lucked out that your girl wasn’t like that and you didn’t
have to go through the Feminazi Court System.
Scenario
# 4 you believe NOT all women are like this, my girl is different and
will get married to this special person. However, you were wrong and
that special person after marriage turned into a witch who will make
your life a living well and will see to it that she is going to get here
‘due’ through the Feminazi Court System.
Ouch!
This is going to hurt! It’s because of this scenario why I tell my
readers there better off jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge than signing
a Marriage Contract.
You
can expect to get hit with a false domestic violence abuse charge,
which means you will get arrested and you will be kicked out of your own
home. You will have to pay for your attorney fees and her attorney fees
for a divorce you never initiated in the first place. You will have to
pay a high amount of Alimony and Child Support payments. You will lose
your house but will have to keep paying the mortgage payments. Your
ex-wife will manipulate your children where you are seen as the villain
and will hate you. Also there is something called imputed income. A
judge bases the percentage of child support payments and alimony
payments based on ‘potential earnings’, NOT how much you actually make.
Many times you will owe more money than you actually make! If you fail
to make the payments your licenses will get revoked and you will get
thrown in jail.
Do
I agree with Christopher in Oregon’s analysis that every single woman
in the planet will cash out on her husband if given the opportunity? The
answer is NO! I have a mother who grew up in the pre-feminist era who
is a wonderful traditional lady, also I have two extremely religious
older sisters who believed sex before marriage is a deadly sin and
divorce is very bad. Do I recommend that it worth taking a shot at
scenario #3 just because every single woman in the planet is not like
that? The answer is a big fucking NO! Even if all women aren’t like
this, you will have a hard time determining between a good woman and a
witch until it’s too late. This is because when a witch is on the prowl
she is going to act like a very sweet woman who would never consider
betraying you. It’s not until after you got married whether you know you
got yourself a good woman or a witch. Because once a witch knows she
got you by the balls her true colors will come out but by then it’s too
late. When a woman argues that we're not all like this, as of today she
may be right. However, the key word is TODAY. That doesn’t mean 5-7
years later she will be a virtuous woman. Women do change and it’s not
for the better especially when they know they will get a big divorce
settlement if the marriage doesn’t go the way she wants it to go.
My
view is a man would have to be clinically insane to get married in the
United States or in the Anglo sphere. The fact is since radical feminism
has taken hold the vast majority of women aren’t suited for marriage
and no longer have the qualities which would be desirable for men, all
they have to offer is sex and that is no longer appealing once they
start aging (Mid 20’s and beyond). Now there have been multiple news
articles which states 60% of American/Western wives have sex with men
who are NOT their husbands. It’s very rare for modern women these days
to provide their husbands with home cooked meals and keeping a clean
house. The divorce rate is well over 50% with 70% being initiated by
women. In my home state California the divorce rate is between 70-80%.
If
a man is scarred about living alone and is in need of a loyal
companion, he should go adopt a dog. It’s not by accident that dogs are
called a man’s best friend.
Having
analyzed all four possible scenarios I have concluded that scenarios
1&2 are much better than 3&4. Given the times we are living in
today although I personally may not agree with Christopher in Oregon’s
thesis that all women are like this, however I have no choice but to
assume that all women are indeed like the way Christopher in Oregon
describes them to be. Now is it fair to assume Christopher’s thesis is
the correct one while deep down knowing it could be wrong? The answer is
NO! Just like it’s not fair good hard working get treated like shit by
21 century modern day American Women, a man can get booted from his home
on false allegations or get booted because his wife filed for no fault
divorce, have to pay alimony, child support, his and her attorney fees
on a divorce he never initiated, and have his children taken away from
him with the children’s mother training his children that he is the
villain and she is the victim. As a result, even if Christopher’s thesis
is proven wrong a man can still live a quality bachelor life (scenario
#2) where there are no consequences for being wrong with this
assessment. Even if all women aren’t like this and a man believes his
girl is different (scenario #3), he will still be working himself into
an early grave. However, if he is wrong and his girl was indeed like the
majority of the 21 Century Modern Day American Women, he will end up in
scenario #4 where life as he knows it will be over. There will be no
second chances for being wrong, you are finished! As radical as
Christopher’s thesis may seem, at least if a man believes Christopher's
thesis he won’t ever have to live life under scenario #4. As men get
older many will realize scenario #2 is better than scenario #3.
It’s
pointless to argue this with Women because they don’t seem to get it
(at least they pretend not to get it). They think all they have to do is
argue all women aren’t like this and men will still get married but
they are missing the bigger picture. Many of us bachelors are perfectly
content with letting women declare victory while they now have to
support themselves where they too will get to see what it’s like working
themselves into an early grave. At the same time we bachelors won’t
have to work as many hours long term since we won’t have to support a
family or financially support a divorce. We understand it’s much more
economical not to marry, but rather indulge in fun hobbies take bachelor
vacations and don’t have to put up with any more bullshit with women
where we can enjoy our peace.
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OS is a wise, young man. The Force is STRONG with that one! His approach has been mine too; I dare say that it's the approach of a number of men. While we know that there are decent women out there, the safe & prudent course of action is to assume that they're all like Christopher in Oregon says they are; the safe course is to assume that a woman is your enemy until proven otherwise, and to govern one's self accordingly. Have a good night now...
MarkyMark
4 comments:
Hi Marky Mark
Thanks for running it, it was one of my finest pieces.
My blog has been resurrected although I disabled commenting and these days my posts are few and far between.
http://outcastsuperstar.blogspot.com/
There are a couple of pieces I did in November of last year which I think you will dig
Dissecting Womens Sexual Currency Value
http://outcastsuperstar.blogspot.com/2012/11/disecting-womens-sexual-currency-value.html
Is the Manosphere Really Dead?
http://outcastsuperstar.blogspot.com/2012/11/is-manoshphere-really-dead.html
All good points, and a decent way of weighing one's options. I do need clarification on one aspect of this post though.
Above it mentions some of the many perks of being single (vacations, hobbies, personal time, ability to make buying decisions, etc), all of which I agree with and indulge in myself. I'm 27, will be completely debt free in 2 years, and have led a happy, largely stress-free life since age 18. Truly, self-reliance is the path to happiness!
But then this sentence seems to bring a contradiction with it...
"Many of us bachelors are perfectly content with letting women declare victory while they now have to support themselves where they too will get to see what it's like working themselves into an early grave."
Are we to think that those of us who relish the ability to take vacations, buy videogame consoles, work out at any time, travel and otherwise live our lives for ourselves are *still* working ourselves into early graves? I may work 55 hours a week, but at no time do I feel like my lifeforce is draining from me. After all, I'd not be able to afford the perks of single life were it not for my job. It seems like an odd thing to say, especially as it is followed by an affirmation of the bliss of singlehood...
Sophia, many woman love their career life when they are 27. A few more years and for many, not all, it starts wearing thin. Definitely before age 40.
And, when they realize they have another 20+ years, it can get pretty miserable. Especially if they can't find a bread winner so they can opt out as a SAHM.
We change. Many a woman, content at age 27, decided at age 30 she has to have babies. we call it baby rabies.
Men know from the start if they can even find a job, it will be until retirement.
Anonymous age 71
I'll be 28 in a few days, and still have no desire for children of my own. I am the oldest of 7 siblings, whom I helped to raise from a young age. I've already had to care for a crying baby, clean up feces/spittle/vomit, give medicine, make bottles at night, watch numerous youngsters by myself for hours. I have absolutely no desire to do this *again*, for yet another significant portion of my life. Children are wonderful...as long as you can hand them back to their parents. I am a fantastic aunt, but I daresay I would make a terrible mother. Just the mere thought of my being pregnant seems wrong to me, and causes a slight sense of revulsion.
Neither my boyfriend nor myself wish to get married or have children. I love my job, my ability to travel, take vacations, buy videogames, cook what I want, treat my man to gifts whenever I can, and come home to my spotless apartment. I have no need for a breadwinner...I *am* the breadwinner. I personally do not cringe from the idea of working til retirement age. Rather, I embrace it as a journey of struggle, ethics and perseverance, just as any mature adult should.
Believe me, Anon age 71, I have had this conversation more times than I care to remember, and my point of view has yet to even remotely alter. I appreciate your opinion, and acknowledge that it is correct in most circumstances...but exceptions do exist, and for better or worse, I am one.
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