Guys,
There was a discussion on Happy Bachelors about what
attracts women to certain men. Here were Christopher in Oregon's
thoughts on this...
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Guys,
Let me hammer this point home:
It does NOT matter what you look like
physically. Every so-called ugly man could bed down the most
beautiful women on the planet. All it takes is money. Every woman has
her price. EVERY woman. You could look like something out of a
grade-B horror movie, but if you've got $100 million dollars, pretty
much every broad alive will spread her legs for you.
All it ever takes is money. The more money
you have, the more available she becomes. If you're rich, ugly
becomes "rugged". Fat becomes "solid". Three eyes
and horns on your head become...well, I don't know. But if you've got
three eyes and horns as well as $100 million, you WILL get laid with
any woman you choose.
A woman is a whore by nature. Period.
So stop this useless whining about whether
or not your looks are acceptable to these foul, smelly broads. If you
just have to get laid, then get rich.
While we're on the subject, I'm reminded of
something from long ago. In high school, in my senior year, we all
took showers after gym class. Or maybe it was my junior year. There
was this guy in gym class, James. He had the tiniest dick I've ever
seen on a guy. Like a tiny button mushroom. He used to get teased
about it. A lot. He was dull average in the looks department. Wore
glasses. Not the least bit athletic. Kind of reclusive. But, his
father was the head of some company with several hundred employees.
The kid was slated to inherit, and ultimately, he did inherit- a lot.
Guess what this dinky-dick kid's girlfriend
looked like? Yeah, she was a knockout. Drop-dead gorgeous to the
extreme. I know he was banging her at the time, the only question was
"how?" (And with what?) But, she was all over this weird
kid. We were all jealous as hell.
So, stop worrying about looks.
Christopher in Oregon
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Chris has a point. Look at
Donald Trump. How many hotties has he married in their prime?
At least three that I can think of. First was Ivana. When
she accumulated some wear & tear, the Donald went for the busty,
blond Georgia peach of Marla Maples. Now, he's married to
Melania Knauss, who was a model. I have ONE question to ask you
people: if Donald Trump were collecting Social Security checks rather
than being a billionaire, do you REALLY think that he'd have any
female attention at all, let alone from some of the most desirable
women on the planet? I think we all know the answer to that
one! IOW, Christopher in Oregon is right. Until next
time...
MarkyMark
28 February 2014
25 February 2014
A Fine Example of 'Chyck Logic'
Folks,
I was reading a thread on Mancoat earlier today. In that thread, someone had a link to an old thread on JDUnderground, a site for lawyers. Anyway, the entire thread is good; I could make a few posts out of the material in it. That said, I thought that this post was particularly good, as it shows American women's 'thought process'-or lack thereof, I should say. This woman is a PIECE OF WORK! I and other guys have known her type; indeed, some of us have been on the RECEIVING END of these fun & games. These are the same ones who, at 30+ years of age, cry out wondering where all the good men are...
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Author: al anonTime: June 22, 2008 - 10:32 am
Women in their late 20s/early 30s have to learn to be "nice" and develop great personalities because the aloof/angry-at-the world/depressive mentality many have - and many have used successfully in the past doesn't work as well with the guys who are "left" so to speak.
Being nice goes a lot further than I think women understand. They see being bitchy and elusive when you are young and nubile and then try to replicate it when the dating pool has already weeded out the guys who fall for that shit (plus as women age they lose a lot of their sexual capital and guys just won't put up with it anymore.)
Naw, they don't need to learn THAT, Man! Why if women are nice to their men, or even entertain the mere THOUGHT of doing so, why they're letting down the Sisterhood! That would be weak; that would be giving in to her 'oppressor', for crying out loud! They can't be NICE to no stinkin' man now; why, he might take advantage of her...
That, and these chicks, when they were young, hot, desirable, and carrying less baggage than a luggage factory were 'in demand'; they were wanted, big time, so they were drunk with their power. They didn't have to be nice, since there were 100 guys lining up to replace the one she just blew off. They got USED to having men come down the tracks like rush hour trains, and they figured that this would continue forever. Silly girls...
Al anon is also right that, once men reach a certain point, then they're no longer willing to PUT UP with a woman's crap. Once men reach a certain point, they are no longer slaves to their hormones, so they're no longer willing to anything or put up with anything just to get some nookie. I find that the older I get, the less willing I am to put up with a woman's crap. Shoot, if I even THINK a woman will play head games, I'm G-O-N-E...
So yeah. Here's a rough approximation of a random panicked phone call I got from a close female friend last week to give you a peek into the mindset of late 20s female...
her -I've been crying all night, so and so is getting married. This is horrible. My life is OVER, I have nothing now.
me -Thats great, he's such a good dude. Who is he marrying?
her - some pasty-white 25-year old blond grad student bimbo bitch with bad ears.
me - Wait...Why aren't you happy for him? He was like your best friend in law school.
her - Because I loved him and now I can't have him. Everyone is getting married and no one wants to marry me.
Yeah, Darlin', your best friend is marrying someone else! Whose FAULT is that?!
me - Love him? You guys live five minutes from each other and never hang out. And aren't you dating some other dude?
her - I don't really want to talk about that.
Al anon, my friend, the LAST thing this stupid bitch wanted was to be confused with the facts! She didn't want to talk about HER role in losing a good man now. Why, that would mean she'd have to accept RESPONSIBILITY for herself and her actions! AW can't have that now...
me - I don't know, maybe he assumed since you are dating other people that you weren't interested in him.
Dude, you just HAD to point out the obvious, didn't you? Leave it to a MAN to look at things logically, and to remind this little dearie of the facts...
her - You are a boy, you don't understand. I should have never called you. You don't get it, I can't just be available and hang around him, he'll never like me then. I don't want to look too forward you know. I don't want to be rejected.
Darlin', you didn't waste ANY time dispensing the insults or shaming language, did you?! And I just LOVE the bullshit answer you give to his obvious, yet pointed question...
me - Too forward? Didn't you claim he only moved down here to be closer to you?
her - I don't know, maybe...he was going for his MBA.
Trying to deny past, narcissistic statements, my dear?
me - And moved five minutes away from you. When was the last time you saw him?
her - I don't know, December maybe. We hung out more in the fall. I'm busy, he's busy.
Ah, excuses, excuses. You know what they say: excuses are like anuses; everyone has one, and they ALL stink...
me - Why didn't something happen between you two?
her - He tried, two or three times invited me back to his place and such but I never went. I thought he'd think I was being a slut.
Ah, now we have a GLIMMER of truth trying to break through the clouds of your lies & deception, my dear! Now the truth is starting to come out...
me - We all just assumed you two were sleeping together in law school. You two were always together. He doesn't think you are a slut, he thinks you are the world's biggest prude and tease and after getting shot down he found someone else.
Ding, ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! Of COURSE your buddy thought this chick was a prude and tease; she led him to think she was interested, then blew off your friend when he ACTED on the false signals this bitch sent out. Of COURSE he found someone else; he wanted a gal who wanted HIM-duh!
her - He stopped calling me too, the phone works both ways.
Oh, I just LOVE how you try deflecting responisibilty, Darlin'; I just love how you try saying, "It's not all my fault-waaahhhh!" How freakin' TYPICAL...
me - You shot him down sexually, you think he's gonna be hanging around?
Dude, you're being a patriarchal oppressor; you're being LOGICAL, for goodness sake!
her - We used to talk ALL the time. ALL the time. He was my SOUL MATE.
Too bad you didn't TREAT him like your soul mate, my dear...
me - He wanted to have sex with you, when you took that off the table he took that talk to someone or somewhere it could actually lead to something.
Dude, you keep pointing out the obvious! When are you going to learn that chicks do NOT want to be confused with logic, the facts, or the truth-ESPECIALLY if it makes them look bad?!
her - But we were like EPIC friends, I've never known anyone, ANYONE in the world who understood me like he did. Or at least tried to understand me like he did.
me - Maybe thats it, maybe he did finally understand you and knew he had to move on. I've been there...
Yeah, your buddy, Mr. NG understood that this stupid bitch didn't want him, so he went and found someone who DID-what a concept! Imagine that, a man finding a woman who actually WANTS him...
her - shut up. You are such an idiot. I suppose I could have called him back more. But I'm busy. And I have canceled plans with him three or four times in the past month or so.
me - So you never called him, canceled plans with him regularly, and shot down his sexual advances, I'm happy for him. He's too nice to date you. He should have moved on long ago.
So, this stupid, clueless bitch blew off Mr. NG REPEATEDLY, shot down his advances, etc., and yet she STILL expects him to be pining away for her?! COME ON!!
her - I hate you.
me - Yeah I know whatever, you have NO REASON to be upset. Really no reason.
her - He LIKED Me! Not some other bitch.
Yeah, but your ACTIONS told him that his love for you was UNWANTED; you told him, via your actions that you were not INTERESTED-duh!
me - Guys aren't that complicated. You are secretly dating someone else, never call him, cancel plans, haven't hung out with him in 6 months and yet you are shocked and crying on the phone with me about your best friend getting married. I can't help you with that. It doesn't compute.
What can I POSSIBLY add to that?! Al anon, you NAILED it, brother! Are you sure you haven't been hanging around MRA/MGTOW sites & blogs?
(sorry for the length but after perusing this thread I just had to share.)
Thanks for sharing with us, al anon...
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Guys, THIS is what passes for 'chyck logic'; this is what passes for female 'thinking'. And to think we allowed these creatures to vote! No WONDER our once great nation is taking a swan dive into the crapper. Until next time...
MarkyMark
I was reading a thread on Mancoat earlier today. In that thread, someone had a link to an old thread on JDUnderground, a site for lawyers. Anyway, the entire thread is good; I could make a few posts out of the material in it. That said, I thought that this post was particularly good, as it shows American women's 'thought process'-or lack thereof, I should say. This woman is a PIECE OF WORK! I and other guys have known her type; indeed, some of us have been on the RECEIVING END of these fun & games. These are the same ones who, at 30+ years of age, cry out wondering where all the good men are...
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Author: al anonTime: June 22, 2008 - 10:32 am
Women in their late 20s/early 30s have to learn to be "nice" and develop great personalities because the aloof/angry-at-the world/depressive mentality many have - and many have used successfully in the past doesn't work as well with the guys who are "left" so to speak.
Being nice goes a lot further than I think women understand. They see being bitchy and elusive when you are young and nubile and then try to replicate it when the dating pool has already weeded out the guys who fall for that shit (plus as women age they lose a lot of their sexual capital and guys just won't put up with it anymore.)
Naw, they don't need to learn THAT, Man! Why if women are nice to their men, or even entertain the mere THOUGHT of doing so, why they're letting down the Sisterhood! That would be weak; that would be giving in to her 'oppressor', for crying out loud! They can't be NICE to no stinkin' man now; why, he might take advantage of her...
That, and these chicks, when they were young, hot, desirable, and carrying less baggage than a luggage factory were 'in demand'; they were wanted, big time, so they were drunk with their power. They didn't have to be nice, since there were 100 guys lining up to replace the one she just blew off. They got USED to having men come down the tracks like rush hour trains, and they figured that this would continue forever. Silly girls...
Al anon is also right that, once men reach a certain point, then they're no longer willing to PUT UP with a woman's crap. Once men reach a certain point, they are no longer slaves to their hormones, so they're no longer willing to anything or put up with anything just to get some nookie. I find that the older I get, the less willing I am to put up with a woman's crap. Shoot, if I even THINK a woman will play head games, I'm G-O-N-E...
So yeah. Here's a rough approximation of a random panicked phone call I got from a close female friend last week to give you a peek into the mindset of late 20s female...
her -I've been crying all night, so and so is getting married. This is horrible. My life is OVER, I have nothing now.
me -Thats great, he's such a good dude. Who is he marrying?
her - some pasty-white 25-year old blond grad student bimbo bitch with bad ears.
me - Wait...Why aren't you happy for him? He was like your best friend in law school.
her - Because I loved him and now I can't have him. Everyone is getting married and no one wants to marry me.
Yeah, Darlin', your best friend is marrying someone else! Whose FAULT is that?!
me - Love him? You guys live five minutes from each other and never hang out. And aren't you dating some other dude?
her - I don't really want to talk about that.
Al anon, my friend, the LAST thing this stupid bitch wanted was to be confused with the facts! She didn't want to talk about HER role in losing a good man now. Why, that would mean she'd have to accept RESPONSIBILITY for herself and her actions! AW can't have that now...
me - I don't know, maybe he assumed since you are dating other people that you weren't interested in him.
Dude, you just HAD to point out the obvious, didn't you? Leave it to a MAN to look at things logically, and to remind this little dearie of the facts...
her - You are a boy, you don't understand. I should have never called you. You don't get it, I can't just be available and hang around him, he'll never like me then. I don't want to look too forward you know. I don't want to be rejected.
Darlin', you didn't waste ANY time dispensing the insults or shaming language, did you?! And I just LOVE the bullshit answer you give to his obvious, yet pointed question...
me - Too forward? Didn't you claim he only moved down here to be closer to you?
her - I don't know, maybe...he was going for his MBA.
Trying to deny past, narcissistic statements, my dear?
me - And moved five minutes away from you. When was the last time you saw him?
her - I don't know, December maybe. We hung out more in the fall. I'm busy, he's busy.
Ah, excuses, excuses. You know what they say: excuses are like anuses; everyone has one, and they ALL stink...
me - Why didn't something happen between you two?
her - He tried, two or three times invited me back to his place and such but I never went. I thought he'd think I was being a slut.
Ah, now we have a GLIMMER of truth trying to break through the clouds of your lies & deception, my dear! Now the truth is starting to come out...
me - We all just assumed you two were sleeping together in law school. You two were always together. He doesn't think you are a slut, he thinks you are the world's biggest prude and tease and after getting shot down he found someone else.
Ding, ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! Of COURSE your buddy thought this chick was a prude and tease; she led him to think she was interested, then blew off your friend when he ACTED on the false signals this bitch sent out. Of COURSE he found someone else; he wanted a gal who wanted HIM-duh!
her - He stopped calling me too, the phone works both ways.
Oh, I just LOVE how you try deflecting responisibilty, Darlin'; I just love how you try saying, "It's not all my fault-waaahhhh!" How freakin' TYPICAL...
me - You shot him down sexually, you think he's gonna be hanging around?
Dude, you're being a patriarchal oppressor; you're being LOGICAL, for goodness sake!
her - We used to talk ALL the time. ALL the time. He was my SOUL MATE.
Too bad you didn't TREAT him like your soul mate, my dear...
me - He wanted to have sex with you, when you took that off the table he took that talk to someone or somewhere it could actually lead to something.
Dude, you keep pointing out the obvious! When are you going to learn that chicks do NOT want to be confused with logic, the facts, or the truth-ESPECIALLY if it makes them look bad?!
her - But we were like EPIC friends, I've never known anyone, ANYONE in the world who understood me like he did. Or at least tried to understand me like he did.
me - Maybe thats it, maybe he did finally understand you and knew he had to move on. I've been there...
Yeah, your buddy, Mr. NG understood that this stupid bitch didn't want him, so he went and found someone who DID-what a concept! Imagine that, a man finding a woman who actually WANTS him...
her - shut up. You are such an idiot. I suppose I could have called him back more. But I'm busy. And I have canceled plans with him three or four times in the past month or so.
me - So you never called him, canceled plans with him regularly, and shot down his sexual advances, I'm happy for him. He's too nice to date you. He should have moved on long ago.
So, this stupid, clueless bitch blew off Mr. NG REPEATEDLY, shot down his advances, etc., and yet she STILL expects him to be pining away for her?! COME ON!!
her - I hate you.
me - Yeah I know whatever, you have NO REASON to be upset. Really no reason.
her - He LIKED Me! Not some other bitch.
Yeah, but your ACTIONS told him that his love for you was UNWANTED; you told him, via your actions that you were not INTERESTED-duh!
me - Guys aren't that complicated. You are secretly dating someone else, never call him, cancel plans, haven't hung out with him in 6 months and yet you are shocked and crying on the phone with me about your best friend getting married. I can't help you with that. It doesn't compute.
What can I POSSIBLY add to that?! Al anon, you NAILED it, brother! Are you sure you haven't been hanging around MRA/MGTOW sites & blogs?
(sorry for the length but after perusing this thread I just had to share.)
Thanks for sharing with us, al anon...
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Guys, THIS is what passes for 'chyck logic'; this is what passes for female 'thinking'. And to think we allowed these creatures to vote! No WONDER our once great nation is taking a swan dive into the crapper. Until next time...
MarkyMark
22 February 2014
A Female Reader's Experience with Women...
Guys,
Some time ago, I got this e-mail from a female reader. In it, she related an experience she had at work recently. She's in her late 20s, happily married, loves pleasing her man, and she's aiming to break free of the rat race in the near future. She's a Christian woman who's trying to survive in an increasingly wicked and hostile world. Here's Ruth's (not her real name; I never use real names) e-mail, along with my reply to her.
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Ruth,
I just got home from work and cruise night. All I can say is welcome to a man's world! I don't say that to be flippant; I say that because that is my reality-having to be careful what I say & do around women.
I was going to post on it, but in case someone from work ever stumbles upon my blog, the details give me away and I wanted to share it with someone in the blogosphere....so anyway....I was asked to stay late at work today and not having my guard upm I made the fatal mistake of saying, "I can't stay more than 30 mins. I have a husband at home to feed/take care of". Flew right out of me and sounds innocent enough.....HA! I said the magic words and flipped the feminist switch in my co-worker. She immediately said, "giirrrrllll don't talk like that, you don't have to feed anyone. He needs to realize that he can do these things for himself. He shouldn't be dependent on you. You'll learn that when you have kids that someday you just have to have cereal for dinner. I used to do that a lot....feed my family cereal for dinner and he never complained (proudly boasting). It then got very awkward. I said something like, "of course he can do these things for himself, but I WANT to do them". She didn't like that either, the fact that I still have this pesky nurturing/loving thing going on. I'm not supposed to want to take care of him. That is a big feminist NO-NO. The fact that women WANT to do these things, to think of someone other than themselves, baffles them.
Your story reminded me of a post I read on Eternal Bachelor long ago. He talked about this woman he worked with; her name was Claire. Like you, she was in her mid-late 20s and happily married. Like you, she wanted to and did take care of her man. The other women in the office chided her for this-UNTIL she got a huge bouquet of flowers delivered to her desk! Then, the women were all envious, wondering why THEIR men did not send them big bouquets of flowers. Well, duh! If you took care of your man like Claire took care of hers, then maybe they would!
Perhaps next time it would be best to simply say that you have stuff to do, and leave it at that. If these witches press you, then simply say that it's personal business. That should get 'em to back off. If they still press you, then bluntly tell them it's none of their business.
Oh, and I wonder how this feminist harpy colleague of yours would like it if her man decided that he didn't have to take out the garbage, kill bugs, check for things going bump in the night, etc.; ask her how SHE would like it if her husband took the same attitude. I have a sneakin' suspicion that she wouldn't like that very much. Women like this are all fine & dandy about shirking their duties, but woe to their man if he does the same thing! The hypocrisy is astounding...
All I could think of was had I not known better and had I been younger and more impressionable, I probably would have started to consider what she is saying. After all she is in her 50s, with grown kids, what do I know? BUT thank God, I can see through all that. I just think this is how it starts. How many other women are in situations like these and, not knowing any better, listen more to the co-worker than to the needs of her own husband? It was just so shocking, because I liked this woman.....she seemed reasonable....but gosh not now after I saw her true side, what she is really about. That's scary stuff. I have to be so careful what I say around women. They are like piranhas waiting to bite. By simply saying I need to make my husband dinner, or do anything for him, they immediately think that he is abusing/oppressing me. I have this bruise on my arm right now from being a klutz,,,and I actually worry about if some feminist crazed woman at work will notice it and say "how'd you get this"? When I worked the ramp, a woman there was bruised from working with the bags. She went to her doctor and the doctor suspected DV, became this huge old mess for her. It's just unreal. I can't trust or form any kind of relationship with women. How can you when you have to guard everything you say and when you can't make a very normal remark? Once again I am left with my head spinning with how deep the feminist problem goes.
Perhaps that's how the feminist BS starts, but what gets me is why young women never ask themselves if THEY want a marriage (or lack thereof) like their older, female colleagues have. Part of this tendency to go along is part of women's herd instinct; a woman would rather DIE than go against the consensus of her friends. If a gal, partiularly a young one, thinks that the herd has the opinion that your older, feminazi colleague has, then she'll adopt it. If a gal likes a guy, while her friends don't, then many women will dump the guy because he doesn't get the approval of her girlfriends.
Your story about the bruise reminds me of a story Hestia told me. I can't remember all the particulars, but her situation was similar to yours. She had an injury of some sort, and she didn't want birth control pills. Well, she was given the third degree about DV-even though her husband was on a tour of duty in Iraq! He was only on the other side of the world, and thus quite unable to inflict any DV; even if he'd wanted to (he doesn't), he couldn't have hurt her in any way, because he was thousands of miles away. The hospital personnel then said that she didn't need to be afraid; that she could tell the truth; and so on. They didn't want to hear the fact that her husband was thousands of miles away; they had their minds made up that it was DV; and that was that.
Hopefully, your colleagues won't notice the bruise. If they do, then be careful. Even if you tell the truth, your feminist minded colleagues will be inclined to think the worst anyway. That'd be especially true of Mrs. Harpy, the one who admonished you for wanting to treat your man right. Who knows what she'll do? Be careful-very careful! I say this as a man experienced in dealing with female colleagues.
I know what you say about the trust issue, because I ran into it too. Remember my telling the story about the woman I thought was a good friend, the one I asked out to lunch? Her reaction floored me, because I'd NEVER made a play for her, nor did I ever hint of doing so! I considered her a good friend, nothing more; she was the sister I never had. I still shake my head and feel hurt 11 years later.
I remember when I was new on that assignment, and I met this young college grad, Katie. I'd seen her in passing, so I talked to her. I could SEE the mistrust in her eyes, all because I was a man! I remember her saying that she had 60 pair of shoes-60 pair! I don't think I've owned that many in my entire lifetime. Anyway, she got all defensive because I tried to be nice, introduce myself, and talk to her.
I could tell stories like this for hours, Ruth. After a few experiences like yours, one gets paranoid-execpt in this case, they really ARE out to get you! You'll find yourself being more deliberate in your conversations around women after this; I know I am. Now do you understand why I was cautious about Maria?
I'm going to close this out. I and any guy could easily relate to the story you just told. Why? Because we've LIVED it ourselves! At least you're a woman; you won't automatically be assumed guilty like I would. I know some women, like Hestia, could tell stories too. Tell her your friend's story (the one who got bruised on the ramp), and see if she doesn't spill the beans on the hospital visit I mentioned above.
I hope that this helps you. The big thing (and I hate to say it) is to be VERY CAREFUL what you say around women, and men too. There are manginas out there, and they're just as bad as any woman, if not worse. You'll have to be careful around everyone, not just women. I wish I had something more profound to say, but I don't. Have a good night, and I hope things work out well...
MarkyMark
Some time ago, I got this e-mail from a female reader. In it, she related an experience she had at work recently. She's in her late 20s, happily married, loves pleasing her man, and she's aiming to break free of the rat race in the near future. She's a Christian woman who's trying to survive in an increasingly wicked and hostile world. Here's Ruth's (not her real name; I never use real names) e-mail, along with my reply to her.
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Ruth,
I just got home from work and cruise night. All I can say is welcome to a man's world! I don't say that to be flippant; I say that because that is my reality-having to be careful what I say & do around women.
I was going to post on it, but in case someone from work ever stumbles upon my blog, the details give me away and I wanted to share it with someone in the blogosphere....so anyway....I was asked to stay late at work today and not having my guard upm I made the fatal mistake of saying, "I can't stay more than 30 mins. I have a husband at home to feed/take care of". Flew right out of me and sounds innocent enough.....HA! I said the magic words and flipped the feminist switch in my co-worker. She immediately said, "giirrrrllll don't talk like that, you don't have to feed anyone. He needs to realize that he can do these things for himself. He shouldn't be dependent on you. You'll learn that when you have kids that someday you just have to have cereal for dinner. I used to do that a lot....feed my family cereal for dinner and he never complained (proudly boasting). It then got very awkward. I said something like, "of course he can do these things for himself, but I WANT to do them". She didn't like that either, the fact that I still have this pesky nurturing/loving thing going on. I'm not supposed to want to take care of him. That is a big feminist NO-NO. The fact that women WANT to do these things, to think of someone other than themselves, baffles them.
Your story reminded me of a post I read on Eternal Bachelor long ago. He talked about this woman he worked with; her name was Claire. Like you, she was in her mid-late 20s and happily married. Like you, she wanted to and did take care of her man. The other women in the office chided her for this-UNTIL she got a huge bouquet of flowers delivered to her desk! Then, the women were all envious, wondering why THEIR men did not send them big bouquets of flowers. Well, duh! If you took care of your man like Claire took care of hers, then maybe they would!
Perhaps next time it would be best to simply say that you have stuff to do, and leave it at that. If these witches press you, then simply say that it's personal business. That should get 'em to back off. If they still press you, then bluntly tell them it's none of their business.
Oh, and I wonder how this feminist harpy colleague of yours would like it if her man decided that he didn't have to take out the garbage, kill bugs, check for things going bump in the night, etc.; ask her how SHE would like it if her husband took the same attitude. I have a sneakin' suspicion that she wouldn't like that very much. Women like this are all fine & dandy about shirking their duties, but woe to their man if he does the same thing! The hypocrisy is astounding...
All I could think of was had I not known better and had I been younger and more impressionable, I probably would have started to consider what she is saying. After all she is in her 50s, with grown kids, what do I know? BUT thank God, I can see through all that. I just think this is how it starts. How many other women are in situations like these and, not knowing any better, listen more to the co-worker than to the needs of her own husband? It was just so shocking, because I liked this woman.....she seemed reasonable....but gosh not now after I saw her true side, what she is really about. That's scary stuff. I have to be so careful what I say around women. They are like piranhas waiting to bite. By simply saying I need to make my husband dinner, or do anything for him, they immediately think that he is abusing/oppressing me. I have this bruise on my arm right now from being a klutz,,,and I actually worry about if some feminist crazed woman at work will notice it and say "how'd you get this"? When I worked the ramp, a woman there was bruised from working with the bags. She went to her doctor and the doctor suspected DV, became this huge old mess for her. It's just unreal. I can't trust or form any kind of relationship with women. How can you when you have to guard everything you say and when you can't make a very normal remark? Once again I am left with my head spinning with how deep the feminist problem goes.
Perhaps that's how the feminist BS starts, but what gets me is why young women never ask themselves if THEY want a marriage (or lack thereof) like their older, female colleagues have. Part of this tendency to go along is part of women's herd instinct; a woman would rather DIE than go against the consensus of her friends. If a gal, partiularly a young one, thinks that the herd has the opinion that your older, feminazi colleague has, then she'll adopt it. If a gal likes a guy, while her friends don't, then many women will dump the guy because he doesn't get the approval of her girlfriends.
Your story about the bruise reminds me of a story Hestia told me. I can't remember all the particulars, but her situation was similar to yours. She had an injury of some sort, and she didn't want birth control pills. Well, she was given the third degree about DV-even though her husband was on a tour of duty in Iraq! He was only on the other side of the world, and thus quite unable to inflict any DV; even if he'd wanted to (he doesn't), he couldn't have hurt her in any way, because he was thousands of miles away. The hospital personnel then said that she didn't need to be afraid; that she could tell the truth; and so on. They didn't want to hear the fact that her husband was thousands of miles away; they had their minds made up that it was DV; and that was that.
Hopefully, your colleagues won't notice the bruise. If they do, then be careful. Even if you tell the truth, your feminist minded colleagues will be inclined to think the worst anyway. That'd be especially true of Mrs. Harpy, the one who admonished you for wanting to treat your man right. Who knows what she'll do? Be careful-very careful! I say this as a man experienced in dealing with female colleagues.
I know what you say about the trust issue, because I ran into it too. Remember my telling the story about the woman I thought was a good friend, the one I asked out to lunch? Her reaction floored me, because I'd NEVER made a play for her, nor did I ever hint of doing so! I considered her a good friend, nothing more; she was the sister I never had. I still shake my head and feel hurt 11 years later.
I remember when I was new on that assignment, and I met this young college grad, Katie. I'd seen her in passing, so I talked to her. I could SEE the mistrust in her eyes, all because I was a man! I remember her saying that she had 60 pair of shoes-60 pair! I don't think I've owned that many in my entire lifetime. Anyway, she got all defensive because I tried to be nice, introduce myself, and talk to her.
I could tell stories like this for hours, Ruth. After a few experiences like yours, one gets paranoid-execpt in this case, they really ARE out to get you! You'll find yourself being more deliberate in your conversations around women after this; I know I am. Now do you understand why I was cautious about Maria?
I'm going to close this out. I and any guy could easily relate to the story you just told. Why? Because we've LIVED it ourselves! At least you're a woman; you won't automatically be assumed guilty like I would. I know some women, like Hestia, could tell stories too. Tell her your friend's story (the one who got bruised on the ramp), and see if she doesn't spill the beans on the hospital visit I mentioned above.
I hope that this helps you. The big thing (and I hate to say it) is to be VERY CAREFUL what you say around women, and men too. There are manginas out there, and they're just as bad as any woman, if not worse. You'll have to be careful around everyone, not just women. I wish I had something more profound to say, but I don't. Have a good night, and I hope things work out well...
MarkyMark
14 February 2014
Global Warming, My Ass!
Folks,
We've had yet ANOTHER snow storm-a record setting snow storm. Where I am, we got over a foot of snow! Where I am, even in North Jersey, we don't usually measure our snowfalls in feet. That's for places like Buffalo, NY; Chicago, IL; Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, et al; that's NOT for locales where I am. You have to love all that 'global warming', folks!
Secondly, during the last couple of summers, we have had only a handful of days over 90 degrees Fahrenheit, or 32 degrees Celsius. Our summers are getting cooler too. The whole year is cooler. Ah, but we have global warming-not!
Thirdly, what's telling is that the language WRT this issue has changed. It's no longer called global warming, because there IS no warming-duh! Now, they call it 'climate change'. That's the de rigeur name for it now, since the original is BS.
No, what climate change is about is not the environment; that is just a red herring. What it is is an excuse by gov't, control freaks, and wannabe tyrants to oppress us with more regulations. Under the ruse of protecting the environment, the federal government tells us what light bulbs we can buy, what toilets we can use in our house, and what cars we can buy.
For example, under the ruse of protecting the environment, the Obama Administration has gone after coal fired powerplants. Never mind the fact that they provide a good percentage of our electricity, and that shutting them down will give us rolling blackouts. That's great-not! Now, we can be like every other Third World country without a reliable electric supply.
Another example is the cars we drive. Thanks to the new CAFE (corporate average fuel economy) standards, our cars are becoming smaller, less powerful, and more expensive. The government wants US riding around in Smart Cars, while they enjoy their limos-fucking hypocrites!
I could go on, but you get my point. Global warming isn't happening, so they call it climate change now. Global warming proponents like Obama demonize private jets and those who have them, while they fly around on Air Force One. Air Force One, the President's plane, is a modified Boeing 747-200. The last time I checked, a B-747 burns about 3, 200 gallons of jet fuel per hour; that's one HELL of a carbon footprint! Ah, but Barack Hussein Obama wants to chastise private citizens for having private jets, though his jet uses an order of magnitude more fuel per hour more than any private jet does. There's a name for that: hypocrisy...
In closing, global warming is a ruse; it's not happening . If it were, then those pushing the global warming fantasy wouldn't have to change what it's called; they wouldn't have to call it climate change now, would they? No, this is just a ruse to take away more of our freedoms, more of our rights, and usurp even MORE power for the government-as if they don't have enough already! If global warming were happening, we wouldn't be measuring our snowfalls in feet. Have a good day now...
MarkyMark
We've had yet ANOTHER snow storm-a record setting snow storm. Where I am, we got over a foot of snow! Where I am, even in North Jersey, we don't usually measure our snowfalls in feet. That's for places like Buffalo, NY; Chicago, IL; Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, et al; that's NOT for locales where I am. You have to love all that 'global warming', folks!
Secondly, during the last couple of summers, we have had only a handful of days over 90 degrees Fahrenheit, or 32 degrees Celsius. Our summers are getting cooler too. The whole year is cooler. Ah, but we have global warming-not!
Thirdly, what's telling is that the language WRT this issue has changed. It's no longer called global warming, because there IS no warming-duh! Now, they call it 'climate change'. That's the de rigeur name for it now, since the original is BS.
No, what climate change is about is not the environment; that is just a red herring. What it is is an excuse by gov't, control freaks, and wannabe tyrants to oppress us with more regulations. Under the ruse of protecting the environment, the federal government tells us what light bulbs we can buy, what toilets we can use in our house, and what cars we can buy.
For example, under the ruse of protecting the environment, the Obama Administration has gone after coal fired powerplants. Never mind the fact that they provide a good percentage of our electricity, and that shutting them down will give us rolling blackouts. That's great-not! Now, we can be like every other Third World country without a reliable electric supply.
Another example is the cars we drive. Thanks to the new CAFE (corporate average fuel economy) standards, our cars are becoming smaller, less powerful, and more expensive. The government wants US riding around in Smart Cars, while they enjoy their limos-fucking hypocrites!
I could go on, but you get my point. Global warming isn't happening, so they call it climate change now. Global warming proponents like Obama demonize private jets and those who have them, while they fly around on Air Force One. Air Force One, the President's plane, is a modified Boeing 747-200. The last time I checked, a B-747 burns about 3, 200 gallons of jet fuel per hour; that's one HELL of a carbon footprint! Ah, but Barack Hussein Obama wants to chastise private citizens for having private jets, though his jet uses an order of magnitude more fuel per hour more than any private jet does. There's a name for that: hypocrisy...
In closing, global warming is a ruse; it's not happening . If it were, then those pushing the global warming fantasy wouldn't have to change what it's called; they wouldn't have to call it climate change now, would they? No, this is just a ruse to take away more of our freedoms, more of our rights, and usurp even MORE power for the government-as if they don't have enough already! If global warming were happening, we wouldn't be measuring our snowfalls in feet. Have a good day now...
MarkyMark
05 February 2014
Traffic Stops
Guys,
While searching for something else, I stumbled across the video you're about to watch. Though I don't smoke pot, I found the most of the information useful. Though you may never haul drugs in your car, you may haul a gun or something else deemed to be illegal. For example, you may live in a very blue state like NJ. You buy a rifle or pistol at a gun show in Virginia or other nearby state, and you bring it back. By crossing into NJ with the gun, you've committed an illegal act. The question is this: how do you not get caught? Barry Cooper, former law enforcement officer and maker of the video, will show you how to remain free.
Now, the video will take about an hour and a half (1.5 hours). I would encourage you to view the whole thing; it's time well spent. You don't have to watch it all in one sitting; you can view a topic or two at a time as Mr. Cooper covers them. IOW, you can either view this in one sitting, or do it in multiple sittings. However you watch the video, please, WATCH THE VIDEO! The life you save may be your own. Now, on to the video...
Good stuff, huh? Only here at MarkyMark's place can you find useful information! Have a good day now...
MarkyMark
While searching for something else, I stumbled across the video you're about to watch. Though I don't smoke pot, I found the most of the information useful. Though you may never haul drugs in your car, you may haul a gun or something else deemed to be illegal. For example, you may live in a very blue state like NJ. You buy a rifle or pistol at a gun show in Virginia or other nearby state, and you bring it back. By crossing into NJ with the gun, you've committed an illegal act. The question is this: how do you not get caught? Barry Cooper, former law enforcement officer and maker of the video, will show you how to remain free.
Now, the video will take about an hour and a half (1.5 hours). I would encourage you to view the whole thing; it's time well spent. You don't have to watch it all in one sitting; you can view a topic or two at a time as Mr. Cooper covers them. IOW, you can either view this in one sitting, or do it in multiple sittings. However you watch the video, please, WATCH THE VIDEO! The life you save may be your own. Now, on to the video...
Good stuff, huh? Only here at MarkyMark's place can you find useful information! Have a good day now...
MarkyMark
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